I just had my baby boy 6/24/11 now i have questions please answer?

ok first i cant poop ive tryed everything i can think of is there anything else i could try?i did have to have stitches did not tear they cut me...about how long be the bleeding slowed down?and my main problem is i dont feel like a very good mom i mean i change him feed him and everything i just dont feel a bond with him i guess and its killing me i love him so much i just dont know what to do....ooo and what can i do to help my stitches heal faster